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Cheaters and Spiritual Breaks

It’s an interesting concept when you think you have found the person who you would spend your entire life with just decides to either dump you, leave you, or cause heartbreak. However, why do the people you have trusted the most often hurt you the worst? They were your soulmates or at least you thought they were and now your world is shaken up and torn apart.

While we all have a blueprint, we design and work with our guides and spiritual guidance team before being born into this life and existence, that same blueprint contains exit points not only to leave the world and return to the spiritual world but also contains exit points in your free will and areas of LOVE. We all heard that certain people become a lesson, experience or lesson learned. This is all part of our spiritual evolution and growth. However, you must understand the reason why your spouse, partner, boyfriend, or girlfriend has cheated on you. Was it something you did? Was it temptation? There are too many reasons why they could have done this but one of the main reasons is that the partner is seeking some type of healing that they can no longer find in themselves or in you. This is one of the main reasons why people cheat on one another. See every partnership provides you with physical and spiritual healing.

This doesn’t justify the fact that they hurt you and did this as it’s not spiritual and is a lower vibration for them but most cling to these relationships even when knowing the truth for the sake of a security blanket. It could be several things stemming from the familiarity of having a partner, shame of what others will think, financial reasons, and the list goes on. Remember the universe knows your intentions and this is where the lessons are. The longer you cling to a person who has chosen to be with someone else, the more pain you create for yourself and you are shutting yourself out on the blessings the universe has. Some are afraid that they will not have the willpower or strength to survive this separation or turmoil but in most cases, you will be just fine. It’s the FEAR that holds you back.

Another reason why relationships go bad is based on the intent and I am going to go into more depth. If you met someone who was physically attractive and that is your only reason wanting to be with them, then your relationship will more than likely not last. Listen to this carefully, YOUR RELATIONSHIP HAS NO LOVE! Yes, you may love their body but that’s not loving your soul and anything that is not true or genuine for your soul is not part of your destiny or life path.

Next you may be with someone only for their money. Yes, what attracts you is the security of having a home and money. Yes, you may work but having a partner who is financially secure and stable is very enticing. However, deep within your heart you don’t truly love them. You may trick yourself into thinking you do but your soul knows the truth. Therefore, relationships go sour quickly or after some time. Money and having a place to live doesn’t mean anything if you are unhappy spiritually and physically unable to feel love by the other person.